| I'm an experienced spanker in Worcester, MA. Feel free to e-mail me directly. Here are a few of my ideas on the subject of spanking... I've been into spanking for as long as I can remember...when I was younger, I was into getting spanked and over time my interest evolved into being the spanker. I believe that any man who spanks needs to know how a real spanking feels -- it's the only way that a guy learns to do it right and with care. I have a number of local men who come over for spankings regularly, as the mood strikes them ... some monthly, others a few times a year. The important element in any spanking connection is trust. Any guy who decides to get spanked has to know that he is in careful hands with someone who is going to be discreet and respectful of limits. For me, spanking isn't about causing real pain, rather it is more about understanding what a guy's spanking fantasy entails and then do my best to bring that to life. For example, some men are looking to be spanked for something they feel they have actually done wrong...others may be looking for to relive a dad/son spanking experience or some other spanking they might have gotten in their youth. Some of the guy's I spank have never been spanked before but are just curious about what it might feel like. So, when I am talking with a guy about the possibility of getting together, I like to understand what it is about spanking that he finds interesting or hot. When I spank, I begin slow and easy, take a guy over my lap and starting with my hand, spank his upturned ass until he is starting to feel some warmth...then stand him up and take his pants down for him...Much of the turn-on for many guys into getting spanked, has to do with that feeling of having given up control... Having your pants pulled down for you can accentuate that sense ... anyway, once pants are down, I continue the warm-up stage over the seat of his underwear (I really enjoy it if a guy is wearing regular white briefs, but, hey, it's all good). Once I can tell the guy is starting to feel the sting, yet is getting into it, I stand him up to pull his underpants down...then back over my knees he goes and then I get into a steady spanking rhythm. Done with care, a spanking can feel great, as the brain starts to kick out endorphins. I ready body-language well, and can tell when it's time to ease off...when a guy is ready for more, and when it's time to call it quits... When the spanking is over, it can feel pretty good to have some lotion rubbed on his sore red bottom and just enjoy that afterglow radiating from his cheeks. If you have any questions, please ask...also, if you have a particular fantasy that you have considered, I'd be curious to hear about it. Though I am not into role-play per se, I do enjoy setting up a scene... This will give you an idea of a typical spanking scenario... I made this up and did it with a guy here a few months ago... A friend of mine stores a classic--vintage 1965 Mustang in my garage ... and of course the standing rule is that no one goes in there ... no one is to touch it. Summer vacation has begun ... you've graduated from high school... I have a business trip and I leave you on your own for a few days while I'm on the road. Apparently, the temptation is just too great and you have a serious laps of judgment and take the car for a ride one night ... and all goes well UNTIL you get back and head into the garage a bit too fast and ram the grill into the back of the garage stall. (You might just imagine how this would go over with me in the role of a strict dad ... lots to lecture you on here ... lack of respect for someone else's property...betraying dad's trust... After a long lecture, you probably would not be surprised to hear that you are going to have to call my friend and tell him what you have done ... and that you are going to be responsible to pay for all repairs... BUT you probably would be shocked out of your wits to then hear that you are also going to be spanked for doing something so seriously wrong. Now of course any 18 year old would try like mad to talk dad out of doing something so outrageous, but you would soon see that you are wasting your breath. And I would calmly send you to your room to wait for me to come in and give you your spanking. To my way of thinking, if a dad decided to give a spanking under these circumstances, the idea would be to make it very embarrassing as much as to make the sting felt. I can't think of any way to make a spanking more embarrassing at that age than to insist that it be administered over the knee...with dad taking the pants down when the time comes...as the son keeps his hands cooperatively at his sides.) To allow the message to sink in dad might just begin by taking his son over his lap and spanking first on the seat of his pants...maybe allowing the son to think, oh, wow maybe dad has changed his mind--maybe he won't make me take my pants down ... only to have his hopes dashed when dad tells him to stand up. Time for these pants to come down young man ... and I suggest you give some serious thought to the fact that you are getting this spanking because you were so disobedient and so out of bounds ~! (Lecturing as I unfasten your belt and undo your pants...unzip your fly and then pull them down to your mid-thigh-- positioning you back across my lap in your white underpants) You can picture the progression from there ... you would end up having to stand in front of dad to endure the embarrassment of having your underpants lowered for you and then be taken back otk for your bare bottom spanking. |